A Little Bit Of Me | Lifestyle Blog by Charnita Fance

Have you ever felt like your messy home is a reflection of your worth or moral standing? Do you struggle with the idea that a tidy house is somehow linked to being a better person or a more devoted Christian? If so, you're not alone. Many of us have been conditioned to believe that " cleanliness is next to godliness ," a phrase that, surprisingly, isn't even found in the Bible. 😱 In her latest book, Jesus Doesn't Care About Your Messy House , Dana K. White offers a refreshing perspective that can help you break free from this misconception and find peace in the midst of chaos. Dana K. White is well-known for her practical decluttering methods and her no-holds-barred approach to home management. Her previous books, such as Decluttering at the Speed of Life and Organizing for the Rest of Us , have been incredibly popular among those seeking to tame the chaos of their homes. However, Jesus Doesn't Care About Your Messy House takes a different path. It's no...

We live in a world where screens blink at us from every direction—the laptop for work, the phone for dopamine hits, the TV for "background noise." By day’s end, our eyes feel like sandpaper, and our minds resemble browser tabs left open too long. Studies reveal the average adult now spends over 6.5 hours daily staring at digital devices , a habit linked to rising cases of computer vision syndrome and chronic mental fatigue . But what if reclaiming your focus and ocular health could be as simple as picking up a paintbrush, hiking trail map, or board game? Unlike the passive consumption of scrolling, screen-free hobbies activate tactile learning, spatial reasoning, and creative problem-solving. Neurologists note activities like pottery or gardening stimulate the prefrontal cortex 30% more than digital tasks, fostering deeper concentration. Meanwhile, the absence of blue light gives overworked retinas a chance to recover, reducing headaches and dry eye syndrome reported by ...

Living with PCOS since 2005 has taught me one brutal truth: our bodies play by different rules. I’ve spent nearly two decades trapped in the same weight-loss cycle—strict diets, punishing workouts, and endless frustration. Even at 44, with perimenopause amplifying the struggle, I’ve learned that extreme calorie deficits aren’t sustainable (or healthy). But through trial, error, and digging into the science, I’ve uncovered strategies that actually work for our unique biology. Let’s break down why PCOS makes weight loss feel impossible—and how to hack the system. Disclosure: This post contains affiliate links; as an Amazon Associate, I earn a small amount from qualifying purchases. I appreciate your support. Why PCOS Sabotages Weight Loss: The Insulin-Blood Sugar Tango The Vicious Cycle of Insulin Resistance Imagine insulin as a key that unlocks your cells to let glucose in for energy. With PCOS, those locks get rusty. Your pancreas pumps out extra keys (insulin), but cells stop respond...

In an era where streaming subscriptions seem to multiply faster than we can keep up, it's refreshing to know that you don't need to shell out big bucks to enjoy quality entertainment. Free, ad-supported streaming services have emerged as a game-changer for budget-conscious viewers, offering a vast array of movies, TV shows, and even live channels without the burden of monthly fees. Let's get into the world of free streaming and discover how you can save money without missing out on great content. Top Free Streaming Services Tubi: The King of Free Movies Tubi stands out as the crown jewel of free streaming services , boasting an impressive library of over 40,000 movies and TV shows. Owned by Fox Corporation, Tubi has quickly become a go-to platform for those looking to enjoy a wide variety of content without spending a dime. From cult classics to recent releases, Tubi's catalog spans across genres, ensuring there's something for everyone. What sets Tubi apart is its ...

The Sims 2, while a classic, can feel a bit dated compared to newer games. However, with the right mods and custom content (CC), you can breathe new life into your game and make it even more enjoyable. I've compiled a list of must-have mods and a few CC items, many of which I personally use and love. They add so much variety and personality, and many even fix pesky bugs. So, let's get modding! © A Little Bit Of Me Important Notes:  Some of the graphics and UI enhancement mods are not needed for the 2025 Sims 2 Legacy Collection since this version  is already optimized for modern hardware as detailed here . Clean UI and Starship UI (mentioned below)  already include multiple UI improvements ( e.g., custom loading screens, widescreen CAS, and improved family tree ), so you won't need to install additional mods for those things. The TS2 Starter Pack ( a completely free version of The Sims 2 available on Github )  already comes with numerous graphics and UI optim...

Feeling like there aren't enough hours in the day to juggle work, family, and your personal passions? You're not alone. As we venture into 2025, let's explore some game-changing strategies to help you reclaim your time and make space for everything that matters. Whether you're single, married, or juggling a houseful of kiddos, these tips will help you find that elusive work-life balance and squeeze in more of what you love. The Time Crunch Struggle is Real Let's face it: modern life is a whirlwind of responsibilities and distractions. Between work deadlines, family obligations, and the siren call of Netflix, it's no wonder we feel like we're always running out of time. But here's the good news: with some smart planning and a few productivity hacks, you can take control of your schedule and make room for the things that truly light you up. Start with a Time Audit Before we get into solutions, let's get real about where your time is actually going. For...

Can you believe we're already a week into 2025? And let me tell you, this year is hitting the ground running with some seriously awesome self-help books. Whether you're trying to level up your love life, climb that career ladder, find your life's purpose, or just handle life's curveballs with a bit more grace, there's a book out there just waiting to light that spark in you. To save you from drowning in the sea of new releases, I've done the heavy lifting and rounded up 15 of the absolute best self-help books that have dropped so far this year ( or will drop later this year ). We're talking everything from big-name authors you know and love, to fresh voices that are shaking things up. These books are packed with wisdom, practical tips, and ideas that'll make your brain do somersaults – in a good way! So, grab your reading glasses, find a cozy spot, and get ready to immerse yourself in some life-changing reads. Disclosure: This post contains affiliate lin...

In a shocking turn of events, the United States Supreme Court has upheld a law that could potentially ban TikTok, one of the world's most popular social media platforms. The Supreme Court's ruling on January 17, 2025, has shaken up the online world, sparking intense discussions about how to balance national security and free speech. This decision has got everyone talking about the challenges we face in an increasingly interconnected society. The controversy surrounding TikTok didn't start overnight. It's been brewing for years, with concerns about the app's Chinese ownership through its parent company, ByteDance. These worries reached a boiling point in April 2024 when Congress passed the Protecting Americans from Foreign Adversary Controlled Applications Act with overwhelming bipartisan support. This law, signed by President Joe Biden, set a strict deadline of January 19, 2025, for ByteDance to sell TikTok's U.S. assets or face a ban. The reasoning? There wer...

Get ready to take a hilarious trip down memory lane as we explore the lasting impact of one of television's most beloved sitcoms - and one of my favorite TV shows of all time! Source: Loc's Public Domain Archive That's right, we're talking about " I Love Lucy " – the show that had us all in stitches and set the standard for comedy gold. But did you know that its influence extends far beyond its original run? Let's check out some TV shows that have paid homage to this classic, recreating some of its most iconic moments and drawing inspiration from its groundbreaking style. Friends: The One with the Polka Dots and Pivot! The Pivot Predicament (Season 5, Episode 16): Who could forget the infamous "Pivot!" scene with Ross, Rachel, and Chandler struggling to move a couch? This hilarious moment was a direct homage to Lucy and Ricky's misadventures with their anniversary TV set.